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H is for humour.
Yesterday I talked about how humour makes Grey’s Anatomy awesome and addictive.
I also admitted that I’m not funny. Even when I try… Though I am sometimes funny by accident.
So how to be funny on purpose?
“The secret source of humor is not joy but sorrow.” – Mark Twain
Yeah, South Africans are known to make jokes about the most inappropriate things. We’d rather laugh about something than cry about it.
“Truly good humor… is bound to offend, for in the nature of things, it ridicules our prejudices and popular institutions.” – Mordecai Richler
When I read this quote, I immediately think about Adam Sandler movies. Just Go With It starring Jennifer Aniston is a good example of this.
“Humor is just another defence against the universe.” – Mel Brooks
So shields up. But how to get others to giggle or even smile when you have a distorted sense of what’s humorous?
No idea.
I do know though that the best books, the ones I’ll read again and again, are the funny ones. And it doesn’t have to be roll-around funny, but it does have to able to make me smile even when I don’t want to. An author that immediately comes to mind, is Lynsay Sands (the Argeneau vampire novels). Even almost dying and becoming a vampire or getting rid of rogue vampire corpses are LOL funny.
So how to make one’s writing funny?
Most probably it’s all in the presentation.
Callum lay on the couch, an empty coke bottle next to him. Then he barked at his brother and stole his hoof. Emmett ignored them.
Or:
Callum lay on the couch, quietly staring out of the window. Antonio twitched. Callum flew up, the empty coke bottle that had been next to him now flying across the room, and barked loudly at his brother as he stole Antonio’s hoof. He returned to his spot and chewed the spoils of war. Emmett ignored them completely, despite Antonio’s whines and pleas for help.
Okay, so maybe this didn’t come across as funny in either presentation. You had to be there though to enjoy the craziness of two Rottweilers cooped up inside due to the rain and scary lightning. Emmett had become quite blasé now that he’d turned six.
I’m still working on being funny. I’m watching a lot of The Big Bang Theory and Adam Sandler and Mel Brooks movies (wasn’t Hotel Transylvania 2 cute?) while my poor stationary bike is busting ball bearings in protest. My Camp NaNoWriMo project has to take a break while I’m figuring out how to be funny…
How about you, fellow scriveners: are you funny? Any tips on how to incorporate humour into one’s writing? Have you read the nano-tech vampire books by Lynsay Sands? Are your dogs influenced by the weather?
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patgarcia said:
Excellent post and I love the pictures. I tend to think that we become humorous when we are willing to not take ourselves seriously and be willing to laugh at ourselves.
Visiting from the A to Z Blog Challenge.
Shalom,
Patricia @ EverythingMustChange
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂
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A. Catherine Noon said:
I agree with you; humor is the hardest to do, in writing and in acting. Like you, I’m funny by accident. 🙂
Returning a visit from the A to Z Challenge; Happy blogging!
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miladyronel said:
If only such happy accidents would occur more often…
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Nicola Burggraf said:
Great post! I think having moments of natural funniness is the best form of humour. Even though I laugh a lot (at myself mostly), I do find it quite tricky to write in a humourous way. I can tell a story with actions etc but putting it into words effectively is another matter. Have a great weekend.
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂
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J E Oneil said:
I don’t know if I’m particularly funny. I’m definitely sarcastic, though!
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miladyronel said:
Good sarcasm is a gift one should share 😉
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John Holton said:
I heard somewhere that humor is truth and pain. I can be pretty funny when I’m not trying too hard to be.
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miladyronel said:
Truth and pain… I’ll remember that 🙂
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Tarkabarka said:
Humor is my family’s go-to coping mechanism 😀 Probably one of the best ones too. I started out with humorous pieces when I first publishes short stories, and I still enjoy writing them. I think even the most serious stories need a bit of humor.
@TarkabarkaHolgy from
The Multicolored Diary
MopDog
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miladyronel said:
I agree that stories need humour. Now if only I can find that illusive thread to weave into my tales…
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Piper Presley (@Presleyromance) said:
I just think that humor is important in so many situations. People are too stressed out, and people don’t laugh enough. (At least in America. Not sure what the stress levels are in South Africa.)
Piper Presley
H is for Hot Guys: Blogging From A to Z
http://www.presleyromance.com/blog/hot-guys-blogging-from-a-to-z-challenge
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miladyronel said:
We laugh even as we cry…
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Yvonne V said:
I’m with you on this — humor is hard! I’m rarely funny in my writing.I do suspense and tension much better.
Yvonne V
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miladyronel said:
Me too 🙂
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JJelliff said:
I’m not sure if my writing is actually funny or not, but I find myself laughing out loud at times re-reading/editing my work. I guess as long as I’m amusing myself and having fun, then it doesn’t matter if I (or my work) is actually funny.
Thanks for the post!
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miladyronel said:
You may have a point there…
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Beverly said:
It’s very difficult for me to be funny, in real life or in my writing. I try, but it doesn’t always turn out the way I hoped. Your doggie story is funny, because dogs and do the simplest things and be funny the way they do it. Great post. Thanks.
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂
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randommusings29 said:
My humour is very sarcastic, which doesn’t always come across well in written word. I’ve pretty much given up trying to add humour to my writing
Debbie
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miladyronel said:
Humour is subjective 🙂
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Michelle Wallace said:
As cliched as it may be, laughter IS the best medicine.
Nobody can laugh at themselves like South Africans do.
Look at Schuster, he is seriously funny!! 🙂
Nice to meet another South African via the A to Z Challenge!
Writer In Transit
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miladyronel said:
Agreed. Nice to meet you too 🙂
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Aneesh said:
I feel definition of humor can vary with people. I find Jim Carrey and Steve carrel movies the funniest.
Please do suggest some good South African movies 🙂
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miladyronel said:
The go-to funny guy in South African movies is Leon Schuster – he writes all of his own movies and stars in them. Short and Sweet, Mama Jack and Mr Bones are all funny, covering different themes. Happy watching 🙂
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Aneesh said:
I am not able to find any of the movies online, you have link!!?? 🙂
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miladyronel said:
I watched his movies on DVD and VHS…Try Googling his name and surname with “watch movie online” and see what happens – his pranks should appear on YouTube and there’s a lot of places that offer free trials and downloads of his movies. I couldn’t find a direct link, though.
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kellygriffiths said:
One of my favorite all-time books ( though it’s not overtly funny) is The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis. In it he talks about 4 types of humor and why they work. I won’t give it all away, but the one that has stuck with me is incongruity as a way of creating humor. Jullian Smith’s clip “Reservation” highlights it nicely. I use it when teaching humor. And may I say, I LOVE your blog! 🙂
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂 I’ll check out the C.S. Lewis book.
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Jack said:
Hi! I’ve been following your blog for a long time now and finally got the bravery to go ahead and give you a shout out from New Caney Texas!
Just wanted to say keep up the fantastic job!
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂
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I couldn’t resist commenting. Exceptionally well written!
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miladyronel said:
Thank you 🙂
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